by Christopher | Sep 30, 2021 | Saboteur
Your greatest strength can also be your greatest weakness. This is never more true than when we are engaged in self sabotage, and the archetypal inner Saboteur has a favorite way to leverage your strengths against you. It convinces you the opposite is true. It can...
by Christopher | May 19, 2013 | Consciousness, Love vs Fear, Overcoming Avoidance, Saboteur
It is almost impossible to ignore that we use an “extreme /mega /to the max” mentality to sell ourselves almost everything these days. The adrenaline rush experience is compelling and attractive to us. It’s also one of the primary ways we use to lose touch with...
by Christopher | Apr 26, 2013 | Consciousness, Love vs Fear, Overcoming Avoidance, Saboteur, Tests
In the wake of all the events surrounding the Boston Marathon I was reminded of a truism that in general we find very hard to come to terms with: With freedom comes risk. They are inextricably linked. One is the price you pay for the other. This is true whether...
by Christopher | Apr 19, 2013 | Consciousness, Ego, Love vs Fear, Saboteur
Dale has been invited to make an important sales presentation. Normally he is very confident about his skills and his ability to get results. This time for some reason he finds himself worrying about how this prospective client will respond to him. His track record...
by Christopher | Mar 21, 2013 | Love vs Fear, Saboteur
So often, when my clients are struggling or stuck, they look at their situation and see no solutions. All they can come up with are bad options, pressure from deadlines, dwindling resources and evidence of their own shortcomings and failures. This, of course, makes...
by Christopher | Jul 22, 2012 | Consciousness, Love vs Fear, Saboteur, Tests
When Amy was small she used to go on about all the things she’d fantasized she was going to be and do when she grew up. To this day she can still hear her parents’ voices in her head “Just who do you think you are?” And it still keeps her...
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